Within their own private sanctuaries, otherwise known as their bedrooms, lies the opportunity for teenagers to explore their design talents, express their creativity and practice real-world skills and habits like putting away their clothes and properly cleaning their bedroom and bathroom.
When your teen is ready for a change – whether it’s a top to bottom redecorating or simply adding some minor touches or upgrades – it’s important to remember it is their room, not your idea of how their room should look.
Rather than embarking upon a “great idea” to surprise your teen with a complete room makeover when they return from a summer soccer or cheerleading camp, it’s best to talk about what works for you, budget-wise, and for them, “personalization”-wise. Here are three things to consider when you and your teen are ready for a new look:
What’s your budget?
As with many aspects in life, it’s good to set a budget and stick to it. Painting, furniture, new linens and curtains, built-in bookshelves, a vanity, new rugs or carpeting, not to mention decorative touches can add up quickly. It’s best to look at your budget, determine what you can afford, and then work with your teen to discuss how to get the greatest bang for their decorating buck.
This also sets the stage for ongoing family discussions about budgeting and money management. Your teen may also be old enough to contribute to some of the decorating needs, whether they pick up extra jobs like babysitting, pet care, yard work, lifeguarding, delivering newspapers or other part-time work.
What is their vision of their bedroom?
At some point during their teen years, your son or daughter will have definite ideas about how they want their bedroom to look. While their vision may not coincide with yours, it’s important to remember it is their room. Unless their request strikes you as needing psychological intervention (i.e. all black walls and a black ceiling), try to go with the flow.
In addition to the decorating aspect of their room, you may also want to consider your family values and the purpose of their bedroom. It’s used for sleeping, and, depending upon your family’s schedule and dynamics, may also serve as their preferred location to do homework, watch TV, experiment with hair and makeup, or create the next major internet invention.
Your teen may also want to make the leap from “bedroom” to “pre-college-dorm room” and furnish their room with all their technology needs, a mini-refrigerator and a microwave. Such a set-up may guarantee they’ll never emerge, so think twice about how far you’re willing to go in creating their new bedroom.
What are some quick and easy teen decorating tips?
Paint is one way to make a relatively quick, inexpensive change to their bedroom. Whether the choice is baby blue or hot pink, remind them that professional decorators often go two or even three shades lighter than the preferred color on the paint chip. Purchase several small cans of paint and toss it on the walls; your teen will quickly see which color strikes them best.
Dressers, nightstands, headboards, and vanities can be stripped, re-varnished or painted, and then accented with decorative knobs or color accents.
Simple accessories can definitely enhance a room’s eye appeal and functionality. Beanbag or papasan chairs, chairs, hammocks, colorful lamps, and memo or bulletin boards can add fun, personalized touches to any room.
For flooring needs, consider the addition of colorful rugs that can help pull a room’s look together.
Shelving is another great addition to any bedroom and can “grow” with your child through the years. Use it for books, knickknacks, trophies, or favorite “collections.”
Help create a memorable space for your teen!
This is a wonderful opportunity for you and your teen to work together on budgeting and decorating skills. Offer some helpful ideas but keep foremost in your mind that is their sanctuary. It may not be your taste but it’s a gift of tangible and intangible memories your child will never forget.
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